Antanaver: A gender that represents the desire to be acknowledged, but cannot be, or does not want to be, perceived. To outsiders- and perhaps even to you- this gender is merely a mirror of the truth, not showing itself as what it truly is.
When a person feels afraid to show oneself, is it not natural to try to blend into the normal, or hide away entirely? Like an insect under the light, perhaps it simply feels best being unknown, being a mystery that lacks language and tone. You may find breadcrumbs, or hints of its existence or nature, but it always seems to be nothing more than a mirror of the reality that lurks just beyond your line of sight. You can see its reflection, but you cannot see the truth on the other side.
This gender distorts the truth that is underneath it, as it is in its nature to do so. This gender is underneath the label of obscurian.