These are terms I’ll be coining. I ask you read through each discription before you hate or jump to conclusions. Thank you ^^
The format will be: A flag on top and the term plus discription on bottom.
Disclaimers and notes: These are not directed towards in the closet gay people. These terms are not saying being queer is wrong or bad. These terms are not in any way implying you are a bad person for being queer
Once more:
THESE TERMS ARE NOT IN ANY WAY SHAMING, HATING, IMPLYING, OR SIMILAR BEING QUEER IS BAD, SHAMEFUL, OR HURTFUL IN ANYWAY.
If you hate yourself for being queer, want to harm yourself for being queer, are being harmed for being queer, or anything similar: I ask you reach out to trusted folks or a trusted organization to help you with those issues.
That being said, below are the terms Im coining. If these terms have already been coined, please let me know. Not that it’ll change the post, Its just good to know.
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Heteromo 1 or HMLM
A term for those who are MLM (Men love men) but feel as though or want to be heterosexual / straight. This is also for those who are MLM but refuse to engage in queer activites or date those of the same gender / same sex.
This could be due to: A chosen religion (not forced, chosen), a gender idenity (Genderfluid, multigender, pangender, etc), trauma with your sexuality, trauma surrounding dating your sex / gender, and more.
Heteromo 2 or HWLW
A term for those who are WLW (Women love Women) but feel as though or want to be heterosexual / straight. This is also for those who are WLW but refuse to engage in queer activites or date those of the same gender / same sex.
This could be due to: A chosen religion (not forced, chosen), a gender idenity (Genderfluid, multigender, pangender, etc), trauma with your sexuality, trauma surrounding dating your sex / gender, and more.
Heteromo 3 or HNBLW & HNBLM
A term for those who are NBLW or NBLM (Nonbinary love women / men) but feel as though or want to be heterosexual / straight. This is also for those who are NBLW or NBLM but refuse to engage in queer activites or date those of the same gender / same sex.
This could be due to: A chosen religion (not forced, chosen), a gender idenity (Genderfluid, multigender, pangender, etc), trauma with your sexuality, trauma surrounding dating your sex / gender, and more.
Other terms being coined related to this post:
Heterofic: Being Heteromo and using fiction to indulge in queer fantasies
No-contact queer: As paraphiles use no contact to describe not having relations (romantic, sexual, etc) with their attraction, the same can be said for Heteromos
Homodisordered: Feeling as though your queerness is in some form linked or caused by your mental illness, or feeling as though your queerness is mentally ill