anon: Help lol. I’m trying to finally figure out my gender. I’ve been switching labels (which yeah is fine but I want something more concrete I guess?) I’ve been going as fluix for a while and like that is all fine and dandy, and I was going with agender for a while too. But none just feel like BOOM le me. Just just are place holders most of the time. It’s like my gender is fluid, but at the same time it’s not?

And I don’t even know how to describe it. Right now how I would describe is like. A bottle of water, with sometimes flavor powder packets in it. Sometimes it’s berry, sometimes grape, sometimes it’s just water, ect. Ect. I’m name/pronounfluid, and I don’t even notice what people calk me at all until it comes up and they ask and then I scramble and just pick one (even if it doesn’t fit 100 percent). Part of me feels like an identity hoarder honestly, I don’t know I feel blah.

imoga-pride:

How do you feel about demisuptilian? It’s like, your gender is partially solid (static and stable) but in the other half it’s not (unstable and unstatic).

I’m not fluid, because all my genders always exist, sometimes they are latent, but that’s like genderflux or zerogender.

Context:

Suptilian, also known as Suptiligender or Solidgender, refers to a gender in which one’s gender identity and their gender’s intensity are both precise, unchanging, stable, not flexible, and strictly static. It is not fluid or fluctuating. It is the opposite of amplusian. It can also be described as when one is both diastimian and kymenian. It can be used as an umbrella term for any non-fluid, non-fluctuating gender.

Here’s a flag for Suptilian: