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[no flags, feel free to make your own /g]

diapenile

feeling as though you should have a penis, and/or a penis with different attributes.

diavaginal

feeling as though you should have a vagina, and/or a vagina with different attributes.

diamixed

feeling as though you should have a vagina and penis; feeling as though you should have a vagina/penis with your own genitalia; feeling as though your mixed sex characteristics should have different attributes; etc

dianullsex (alternatively, transkendoll /j)

feeling as though you should have nothing in place of where a vagina, penis, etc should be.