anon: Another question about NCCNC! So, with CNC obviously there’s agreements beforehand about limits, while some stuff could be done spontaneously with some certain rules and a safe word in place.Does NCCNC have any function like that? Can the pre-given consent be revoked or re-evaluated? I’m asking because if there’s no way to basically agree upon stopping a dynamic, the “abuser” in the situation could well be charged for this, so it does worry me as to how to keep it safe and open to change.All genuine questions by the way!
When it comes to pre-established agreements, limits, safe words, and similar it works like a CNC relationship would. Of course it depends on the individuals, certain ones may while others may not. I personally believe that a safe word and similar is important in such relationships. I also believe a contract or just anything written form of consent is also necessary just in case as well. This is to avoid like you said, being charged for something consensual. People in a CNC (BDSM as well) relationship also go through this as well, the ability to be charged for something pre-consensual I mean.
The NCCNC relationship can work in whatever way you want it to. There’s no specific “you have to do this!” to be apart of a NCCNC relationship. However I do believe some precautions should be in place just in case and for the safety of every party.