anon: hey acetrapola was not trying to manipulate you and was genuinely apologizing. /info, non-madalso wow sorry you got that kinda response (referring to the kys things [if that was a joke response or smth sorry im autistic and really bad at tone!!! /genuine])!! /genuineabsolutely no one deserves to be told that even if they did something [considered to be] wrong 🙁

kodoamo:

for context, this is the ask they [acetrappolaswife] sent me:

[pt; I’m sorry for burting you and I’m sorry for being manipulative. I never meant to hurt people or manipulate anyone. I wanted to just ask for my boundaries to be respected, but that’s selfish. I’m sorry for everything, you probably won’t believe me, but I wanted to say it. I am sorry I’m not accepting enough and that this became an issue, you don’t have to believe me, but it’s my fault and I know it. – 💌 end pt]

honestly, i don’t believe you. after sending this, they went on their blog to garner sympathy and concern from their [clueless-to-the-situation] followers by being vague and self-depreciating. i don’t think i have to explain why that’s not something one should do after genuinely admitting wrongdoing.

i already told them i was uncomfortable with them ‘apologizing’ and groveling, yet they decided to try again. that’s how someone who wants to be seen as a victim when they aren’t one behaves. it’s fucking gross and manipulative, basically.

don’t come into my inbox to speak for someone who is completely capable of speaking for themselves. they don’t need any hand-holding when they’re the one escalating and not shutting up about the situation.