anon: Hi, I’m really sorry to add onto this However. I really hate the arissomei term and the creator.
Also having an episode on a public platform in a public space is so embarassing + immature. They sound like a child stomping their foot and getting what they want. Like to be clear as someone who does have episodes i am not shaming them for having episodes, because they are clearly gonna send their hunters for this ask.
I don’t agree with what you did entirely but i still understand why you did it and I’m pretty positive in the beginning you meant no malice/harm. I think its strange for someone who wants no discourse and who keeps ragging on and on about it, to keep tagging the RQ side of it.
Also they are a curse for both sides. For Radqueers because they get stalked, harassed, etc. For Antis because some of them didn’t even want involved or want discourse but now little mx fluffle puff over here is doing whatever they want because…..? ngl. They sound like a cult leader and thats lowkey scary (not a dig at fults or cult survivors etc (genuine). Sorry this is so long, i hope your timezone is well
it’s fine, i don’t mind you getting this out of your system.
i really believe that they shouldn’t be involved in discourse. like at all. this feels weird to say as someone who is probably just as unstable as them, but if you’re that easy to push over the edge, then it’s not safe for you to participate in discourse-centric communities where you will find people who don’t like or agree with you. i didn’t even do anything directly to them [they had me blocked before i got to their first non-anon ask, so it’s not like i could], yet they had a whole hissy fit. it’s just pathetic to watch them act out, victimize themselves, get their dogs riled up by constantly bitching about something they can easily ignore, and then have a breakdown about it. it’s bordering on using mental health to sympathy seek, which is gross.
i don’t expect everyone [even radqueers] to agree with me. truly, i don’t care if they do or don’t. i’m doing what i think is best for a community i genuinely care about [see: the collective atypical dysphoria community]. anti-radqueers and radqueers alike can [wrongly] believe i’m doing this out of ill will if they wish. don’t care.
i wouldn’t be surprised if a good chunk of the anti-radqueer community is sick of their bullshit. they’re truly the yapper of all time [/neg]. don’t worry about your cult leader comment being offensive. i am a ramcoa survivor and i do see where you’re coming from. their rabid followers who blindly defend them definitely isn’t helping with that image…
again, no worries. have a good one.