okay y’all. im ending this.
we all know the problem with the term narc abuse is its ableist origins and that it targets and demonizes narcissists, right? im making a new term to describe the trauma caused by someone with a disorder.
disordered abuse/disordered abuser.
abuse that is related to or caused by an abusers disorder/an abuser that abuses others due to a disorders affect on them.
i might create extension terms for more specific disorders if asked. for now, this is it.
@confessions-ofa-radqueer hope its alright to ping you, since you asked for someone to do this.