Context: “Pseudabuse is where your relationship seems abusive or toxic from an outside perspective, but actually isn’t. This can be due to being in an age gap relationship, being in an age gap relationship, consang relationship, jokingly being mean to your partner(s), having multiple partners, having non-conventional relationships (like purely sexual ones), being in an animal + human relationship, having a kinky relationship, you/your partner being a paraphile, or any other reason. This is not for legitimately abusive relationships, just relationships that queerphobes and anti-radqueers like to claim are “inherently abusive/toxic/non-consensual” despite them actually being healthy, safe, and consensual.”
