Cause people of literally any minority or trauma gets ignored if they are radqueer or adjacent
You all have seen this come by either once or twice or what happened recently when they yk, literally sent (likely fake but high triggering) trauma stories to a bunch of radqueers and seemed to specifically target TransTrauma / TransRAMCOA peeps, BUT ended up “accidentally” targeting a bunch of CisRAMCOA people as well
Heres an image of the ask if anything happens to my acc
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They were not careful in that attack, they did not have the care or idea to take into consideration who they did that to, and I think they did that on purpose too
Those stories were to sympathy bait people AWAY from identifying as TransTrauma, but I also think at least someone sending those asks sent them to CisSurviors so they could trigger them either offline or away from the community
AND IT WOULDNT BE THE FIRST TIME!
Being a radqueer can be so draining, and we *have* seen people leave the community just because of the stress and literally nothing else
Antis will fakeclaim disabled and even LITERAL CANCER SURVIVORS
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I’ve even seen Radqueers talk about antis asking to see their skin as proof they’re poc, and in one of my previous accounts ive been told i couldn’t be jewish because i support TransNazis
And you know what? Let’s talk about TransNazis and TransHarm in general
TransHarm is arguably the most controversial and hard to get across identity when it comes to antis, but is it really that hard to understand?
To antis it’s cut and dry, you identify as something harmful or harmed then there’s either something wrong with you or you just ARE that thing ! But it’s not just that easy is it?
When it was brought up that many people who identify as TransHarm have been the victim of things they identify as so to get back power from those situations or even a way to work through intrusive thoughts, antis ended up fakeclaiming many of these people saying “real disordered people wouldn’t IDENTIFY with their horrible thoughts” or “real victims wouldn’t do this”
Despite something very
Very obvious
Victims interact with trauma in all kinds of ways and disordered people deal with thoughts also in all kinds one ways
As around 90/93% percent of women and 10/25% of men experience s/a, and it only gets higher the more marginalized the group is
And here are 2 VERY EASILY found links to resources showing statistics of s/a related kinks
(ik one of these is from Reddit but pls look at it, it has good info)
And all of that also goes for TransTrauma !
People deal with their own shit in ways that might confuse others, but it’s important to talk to them and get the nuance of things you don’t understand
