Kandiqueer is a radqueer sublabel that’s for all the weridos who are often considered ‘too much of a freak’ for other radqueers and the rest of the world. Kandiqueers are here to live it up and watch it burn because life is a party and it won’t last forever. Kandiqueer is about total acceptance and inclusion of everyone who’s ever been outcast, excluded, hated, berated, or otherwise hurt over being ‘too much’ for everyone else, even from communities that they thought were supposed to welcome them. Kandiqueers recognize that there is nuance in everything and look on the positive side of ‘what if’s.’ They speak from a place of experience and faith that things can change.
This label is:
Pro all transX/transIDs
Pro all paraphilias
Pro all bodily autonomy
Pro all types of fiction
Pro all kinks/fetishes
Pro all consensual relationships
Pro all consang dynamics
Pro all forms of plurality
Pro all ‘contradictory’ labels
Pro all queer identities
Pro all alterhumans & kinfolk
Pro all disorders & disabilities
Pro all religions & practices
Pro all forms of spirituality
Pro MSM/MMP [minor sexual material]
Pro youth liberation (minor rights)
Pro anarchy (however you express this)
Pro “curate your own online experience”
Pro “block (don’t report) and move on”
Pro asking for permission before doing something you aren’t sure someone would like
Anti ageism, speciesism, paramisia, etc.
Anti bullying, harassment, abuse, doxxing, etc.
Anti oppressor catering & blame shifting
Anti capitalism (however you express this)
Anti TERFs, SWERFs, radfems, trans/sysmedicalists, truscum, etc.
Anti bigotry in any form (microaggressions are still aggression)
Additionally: This label is inherently neutral-, complex-, and pro-contact. It is never anti-contact as an ideology (being anti-contact is okay if it is a personal boundary and not a belief system).
This label supports all forms of bodily autonomy, including but not limited to: the right to self harm (with the knowledge of how to patch up such injuries and understand your limits), the right to request assisted suicide/DNR (after heavy consideration), the right to request amputation/removal/damage to a body part (after heavy consideration and done safely), pro-choice decisions like abortion, etc.
This label supports the belief that minors and/or animals can consent, and supports the respect of this belief even if one does not hold it themselves. This label is against toxic communities and perpetuating stigma, including spacese like kiwifarms and EDtwt (eating disorder twitter), where there is a prominence of shaming others and coaxing vulnerable people into fatal and/or traumatizing behaviors.
This label is absolutely against telling others to kill themselves, hurt themselves, or otherwise threatening another’s family, home, location, triggers, friends, or self. That is never okay.
This label supports being unapologetically horny, obsessive, unwell, cringe, freakish, abnormal, problematic, etc. (none of these terms are meant to offend, they are only used as self-identifiers if you want them to be). This label supports varying views of life such as nihilism, cynicism, optimism, hopefulness, etc. This label is inherently Spitequeer.
