CisLostPuppySyndrome, TransPluralMaDD, & PanIdentity Flags

“CisLostPuppySyndrome.

I used a flag made by @/vocalux as a base. Some definitions under the cut!”

Context: Lost Puppy Syndrome is when one who is in a relationship finds themselves constantly looking around for their significant other at seemingly random times in hopes the other will randomly appear. Also used when texting, where there is a lull in the conversation and you find yourself staring at your phone or checking it often to see if a new text has arrived that you somehow missed in the 3 seconds since you last checked.

“Lost puppy syndrome is a term often used colloquially to describe someone who appears lost, confuses, or in need of guidance, similar to a puppy that has wandered away from its owner.

Here are some signs that may indicate someone is experiencing lost puppy syndrome:

  • Confusion and indecisiveness:
    • They may seem unsure about what to do next or struggle with making decisions.
  • Seeking validation:
    • They may constantly seek approval or reassurance from others, indicating a lack of confidence in their own abilities.
  • Lack of direction:
    • They may not have clear goals or plans for the future, and may seem aimless in their actions and pursuits.
  • Dependency:
    • They may rely heavily on others for direction or support, often looking to others to solve their problems or make decisions for them.
  • Low self-esteem:
    • They may express feelings of inadequacy or worthlessness, doubting their own abilities and feeling overwhelmed by challenges.
  • Avoidance of responsibility:
    • They may shy away from taking on responsibilities or challenges, preferring to stay within their comfort zone.
  • Difficulty in forming relationships:
    • They may struggle to connect with others on a deeper level, often feeling disconnected or alienated from those around them.
  • Anxiety or stress:
    • They may exhibit signs of stress or anxiety, particularly in situations where they feel overwhelmed or uncertain.

It’s important to approach someone exhibiting these signs with empathy and understanding, as they may be struggling with their own internal battles. Encouraging them to seek support from friends, family, or mental health professionals can help them navigate through their feelings of being lost and find direction and purpose in their lives.”

“Transplural Maladaptive Daydreamer Flag.

Someone who is transplural and has MADD, who is transplural because of MADD, or any other reason someone may use this.”

“OmniIdentity.

Where all mogai/lgbtq identities fit you with some more strong than others.”

“PanIdentity.

Where all lgbtq/mogai identities fit you equally.”

“PolyIdentity.

Where most but not all mogai/lgbtq identities fit you in some way.”

All coined by agaygaygaygaygaygaygaygay in July 2024.