“Vilepara.

A stance similar to sunset paraphile (link) or fluffypara (link), but with more emphasis on being weird and fucked up and enjoying it. Mix in some CKP (link), and pretty much all those stand for apply.

Does not support or condone acting on non-consensual paraphilias*, but believes in being weird and having fun being weird.

This stance supports:

• All paraphilias and paraphilic disorders (yes including the big 3), as well as OCD.
• Pro-recovery
• Radical acceptance – doesn’t include accepting hateful or harmful beliefs, actions or identities
• Kink and roleplay
• Educating yourself and others about paraphilias
• Consent**
• Bodily autonomy
• Self love and accepting being “weird” or “gross”

This stance does not support:

• Radqueer (leave me alone please)
• Pro, neutral or complex contact for non-consensual paraphilias*

I chose the name vilepara as a sorta misnomer sorta not. Paraphiles often get labeled and disregarded as being degenerate, gross, weird, etc and the name is supposed to play into and reclaim that idea. I love being gross and weird and fucked up and having weird ideas about sex. It’s not always fun or easy but I’ve learned to love it despite that and that’s what this is all about babyyyy!!!

*non-exhaustive list of non-con paras: zoophilia, pedophilia (those who think animals or children can consent fuck OFF), necrophilia, raptophilia, somnophilia, etc. Play is supported as long as consent is involved**.

** consent meaning having an explicit understanding of what one is consenting to, and the ability to revoke consent at any time for any reason. This also includes understanding who can and cannot give consent. Discussion of boundaries and scenarios before something happens is important!”

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Coined by webby-mogai on December 30, 2023.