“Amaidequeer.

Amaidequeer is a derequeer stance in which someone would rather enjoy the sweets they have and wish to get along with others. People that identify with this stance would much rather quietly block and report people over actively speak on them, possibly due to anxiety on the subject and sweets being what calm them.

This stance supports:

• Mental health awareness/Mad pride
• Looking after one’s self
• MOGAI/LIOM
• Xenogenders
• Neo/nounpronouns
• Respecting DNIs
• Alterhumanity/nonhumanity
• Alder identities
• Age regression/dreaming and pet regression/dreaming
• Chronosian
• Well informed self diagnosis
• Fantasies and not acting on or supporting doing something with those fantasies
• Reclaiming dere types [yandere]
• Kinning
• Self-shipping
• Recovery
• Well informed self diagnosis
• Self care and self love
• Anti-contact para

This stance is against:

• Pro-contact/complex-contact para
• Radqueers
• Transid/transx/trans+
• Uninformed self diagnosis
• Romanticization of trauma or mental illness
• Villianization of mental illness
• Harassment
• Consang/incest/”Marriage Equality”
• Normalization of harmful para
• MAPS/PEAR/ZOO/etc
• Pro ED/S-H
• Sexualization of age regression/dreaming and pet regression/dreaming
• Harassment
• Transmeds/Terfs
• Using mental illness as an excuse to harm others or romanticizing mental illness
• Bigotry
• Anti-recovery
• Leaving anon hate
• Self deprecation or encouraging bad habits”

Coined by the-yanderess in June 2023.