MasodeQueer & SadodereQueer Flags (the-yanderess)

“Masodequeer

A derequeer identity that is about acceptance of self, others, and the love of being in (consensual) pain and wish for more awareness on kinks and paras.

This stance supports:

  • Mogai/liom
  • Xenogender and neo/nounpronouns
  • Mental health awareness
  • Acceptance of kink
  • Better sex education and information
  • Anti contact pro para
  • More education on paras
  • Reclaiming dere types
  • Fantasies and not acting on or supporting doing something with those fantasies
  • Kinning
  • Chronosian
  • Alterhumanity/nonhumanity
  • Aldernic identities
  • Self-shipping
  • Enjoying problematic things while being critical of them
  • Understanding masochism and BDSM
  • Mspec lesbians and gay + turigirls and lesboys
  • Objectum

This stance is against:

  • Proship
  • Romanticization of trauma and mental illness
  • Radqueers
  • Transid/transx/trans+
  • Uncritically enjoying problematic sources
  • Sexualization of age and pet regression
  • Nonconsensual kink
  • Pro contact/complex contact para
  • Transmeds/Terfs
  • Harassment
  • Misinformation on kink

This stance often goes in hand with Sadodequeer

Sadoderequeer

A derequeer identity that is about acceptance of self, others, and the love of causing (consensual) and wish for more awareness on kinks and paras.

This stance supports:

  • Mogai/liom
  • Xenogender and neo/nounpronouns
  • Mental health awareness
  • Better sex education and information
  • Anti contact pro para
  • More education on paras
  • Reclaiming dere types
  • Fantasies and not acting on or supporting doing something with those fantasies
  • Kinning
  • Chronosian
  • Alterhumanity/nonhumanity
  • Aldernic identities
  • Self-shipping
  • Enjoying problematic things while being critical of them
  • Understanding sadism and BDSM
  • Mspec lesbians and gay + turigirls and lesboys
  • Objectum

This stance is against:

  • Proship
  • Romanticization of trauma and mental illness
  • Radqueers
  • Transid/transx/trans+
  • Uncritically enjoying problematic sources
  • Sexualization of age and pet regression
  • Nonconsensual kink
  • Pro contact/complex contact para
  • Transmeds/Terfs
  • Harassment
  • Misinformation on kink

This stance often goes in hand with Madodequeer”

satoumatsuzaka-and-shiokobe-irl:

“@blankqueer

*Proship is no longer applicable to any dere queer terms made by The Yanderess.”

Coined by the-yanderess.