“I suddenly wanted to make a blankqueer term and flag. I apologize if it accidentally repeats an existing term or flag – I don’t have enough information about all of them.

Nopequeer (emoji code 🌼✖️) is a label that’s mainly about voicing disagreement, protecting your boundaries, fighting for what’s right, and leaving situations/groups that end up shitty.

It is pro:

• speaking up when something feels off;
• asking mood killer questions like “why do you call yourself a cisgroomer” or “why are people saying you’re dating a 13 yo”;
• being the main cringe killjoy of your group, if there’s no other way;
• knowing where is the line you shouldn’t cross;
• just fucking leaving if it gets too bad.

It is against:

• being cool and based;
• shaming and mocking people into group conformity;
• allowing others to dull your anti abuse radar;
• abandoning care for others’ wellbeing and safety for the sake of scaring antis with how bad you are.

Random design trivia: there are 9 petals because “nein”. The heart of the flower is the ✖️ shape.

Also, this post and term aren’t for antis. I’m para and transid, if you’re an anti, you’ve already not approaching this issue from the same side I do.

Bonus: the flag and the flower separately, may be used interchangeably.”

Coined by start-where-i-end around April 2024.