“EveQueer

A queer stance similar to post-radqueer signifying a radical support and inclusion of all identities that are not harmful or offensive toward others, and are done with careful consideration that they won’t harm others. It’s about respect for all living beings. As long as it makes you happy, who am I to say anything? Whether or not one is harmful toward themselves is their own choice, but this label encourages them to seek recovery if needed. The main ideas are “is it hurting anyone?” and “if it makes you uncomfortable, block them”. It is mostly uninvolved with para discourse other than being exclusively anti or complex contact.

More info under the cut ↓

This label is pro:

• Queer, poc, disabled, women’s, children’s, animal’s, etc. rights
• Contradictory labels (mspec lesbian, lesboy, straightbian, etc. AKA radinclus)
• MOGAI, LIOM, PLUR, etc.
• Non-harmful transids (transrace, transage, transspecies, etc.)
• Trans-harmed transids IF done with proper research, empathy, and consideration
• All good-faith labels
• Non-harmful paraphilias (anything toward non-living things)
• Recovery
• Consent
• Kink
• Empathy/sympathy, including toward people you don’t like
• Fiction/fandom (including ships)
• Education and patience toward those who may not understand queer identities and transids
• Freedom of religion/spirituality (excluding forced, harmful religion and such)
• Endogenic, willogenic, etc systems
• IRLs/DAs
• Bodily autonomy toward ALL things
• MUDs
• Harm reduction
• Prioritizing taking care of oneself’s health and wellbeing

This label is anti:

• contact, or complex contact depending on circumstances
• noncon abuse
• harassment (including doxxing, regardless of what the victim did)
• shipcourse
• FORCED recovery (encouragement is fine)
• Cringe culture (this label is pro-reclaiming cringe though!)
• Fake claiming/reality checking
• Label/thought policing
• most transharmful transids (transnazi, transschoolshooter, etc)
• transids w/o proper education (such as a transbipolar person pretending to have a good and evil persona or something rather than actually researching the disorder and empathizing with those who are born with it)
• aestheticizing/romanticizing/sexualizing etc. (things such as minority’s struggles, living things who can’t consent, etc)
• Censorship
• Transmeds
• Conservatism
• CSEM
• TERFs/radfems (yes, radfem is different from feminism, and yes, including KAM)
• bigotry (racism, sexism, queerphobia, ableism, etc.)

Extra info

Etymology: ευημερία (evemería)/ευεξία (evexia) (wellbeing/euphoria in greek) + queer

Flag meaning:

Brown: TransIDs

Orange: Pro-fiction (including irls, yumes, darkshippers, and anything relating to fiction)

Yellow: Plurals/systems, regardless of source

White: Happiness, kindness, and the mind

Pink: Non-harmful and non-offending paraphiles

Red: Kink, sexuality, and consent

Darker brown: Minding your damn business when you don’t like something and utilizing the block feature!

Heart: Acceptance of all identities and unity

Pink outline of heart: Unconditional love for everyone, supporting queer love

White center of heart: Forgiveness toward people who were once bigots or other “bad people” but later redeemed themselves, and empathy for all”

Coined by mistymeow69 on November 28, 2024.