From u/Loudteethonice on r/QueerVexillology:

“Eximsexual flag (def in caption)

Eximsexual: Someone who has the possibility to gain sexual attraction only after having a sexual encounter with an individual(s).

Similar to demisexual people it’s not guaranteed a eximsexual person will gain sexual attraction after a sexual encounter they’ll just have the possibility to.

A eximsexual person does *not* only feel sexual attraction while having a sexual encounter, as they are able to feel sexual attraction outside of sexual situations, they just don’t gain sexual attraction until after a sexual encounter with someone.

Eximsexual was intended for those on the asexual spectrum but can be used by anyone. Eximsexual people will not feel sexual attraction to someone until after having a sexual encounter, so will find sexual partners based on other attractions or relationship dynamics. Then, after having said sexual encounter, they will gain sexual attraction to said person.

Feel free to ask questions if you have any!”

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