“Cheeseburgerstance: A blankstance aimed at having fun without harming anyone.

Cheeseburgerstance is against:

• sysmedicalism, fakeclaiming, and ableism such as MUDs, disorder faking on purpose, or the idea of “(disorder) abuse”
• xenophobia, colorism and racism
• radqueers, fults, xenosatanism, winterqueer, and any subset terms
• assault and grooming
• incest and the idea that incest should be normalized
• acting on paras that inherently harm the object of attraction nonconsensually
• proshipping and proship culture, and sim and real CSAM (definition)
• debating on which queer labels have the right to use certain slurs
• transphobia, transmisogyny, and anti transmasculinity
• ignoring someone’s DNI on purpose to debate them or mock them
• the idea of “cringe culture”

Cheeseburgerstance supports:

• kink, especially kinky people with “extreme” kinks or in 24/7 kink dynamics
• adults who have “childish” interests/behaviors
• age regressors and chronosians
• self shippers
• nontraumagenic plurality
• abusers who genuinely want to change
• all paraphiles as people
• people with atypical dysphoria from any source
• reclaiming queer or mental illness slurs for oneself (not as an insult towards others)
• “confusing,” “cringe” or “contradictory” identities, furries, otherkin, and everything else that commonly gets mocked on cringe subreddits like fdc

Anything not specified, this term has no stance on and is up to the individual. Emoji code for this if you would like one is 🟧🍔🌈!

Tagging: @blankqueer @blankqueer-archive @bqarch”

Coined by puhoyqueer on February 22, 2026.