“Dahliastance: A blankstance that focuses on atypical relationships.

Dahliastance is against:

• radqueers, fults, xenosatanism, consistent progressivism, and all subset terms
• the idea that abuse can be consensual
• the idea that incest can be happy, healthy, or should be normalized
• the idea that rape can be consensual
• the larger radqueer transid community, such as those who try to claim subliminals can make someone become autistic or otherwise gain a condition they don’t have, or call abusers and bigots things like “cisnazi,” “cisracist” instead of outcasting them
• being anti-nontraumagenic
• demonizing paraphiles for their paraphilias, such as assuming attraction equals action or intent
• saying “pro-consent” to mean that the user believes children and animals can consent

Dahliastance supports:

• all paraphiles and kinksters as people, and their right to do kinky actions consensually that make them happy, even if someone else doesn’t like it
• keeping children out of kink spaces
• non radqueers or former radqueers who use “transid” language because it’s what they prefer
• using words like nichelinking, dissomei, or desirdae
• coining new words to describe your orientation/attraction, even if someone thinks it is “too specific” or “un-needed”
• polyamory, nonamory, acearos, fictospec and autospec
• In general: EVERYONE who has a relationship they would consider different from the norm, who is able to consent to it and is not encouraging grooming or abuse.

Anything not specified, this term has no stance on and is up to the individual. Emoji code for this if you would like one is 💞🔗! According to my drafts, this was originally coined on May 26, 2025.

Tagging: @blankqueer

There is no flag, but I saved this randomly generated color scheme with the idea of using it as a base for the flag.

So I guess if someone wants to make one, use it if you want.”

Coined by puhoyqueer on April 26, 2026.